Therefore， you can allow others to be the mirror to illuminate more clearly your own feelings of self-worth. Conversely， you can view the people you judge negatively as mirrors to show you what you are not accepting about yourself.
To coexist peacefully with others， you will need to learn tolerance. A big challenge is to shift your perspective radically from judgment of other to a lifelong exploration of yourself. Your task is to assess all the decisions， judgments you make onto others and to begin to view them as clues to how you can heal yourself and become whole.